Saint Maria Goretti
By Monique Marshall
It is one thing to die the death of a martyr; it is another to
forgive those who caused your death.
That is exactly what young St. Maria Goretti did on her deathbed.
Maria Teresa Goretti was
born on October 16, 1890 in Corinaldo, Italy to Luigi and Assunta Goretti. She was the third of six children. They were a close-knit, hard working
farming family as well as deeply devout in their faith. Maria would be baptized on October 17,
1890 and confirmed on October 4, 1896.
It was at the time of her
confirmation that family was forced to move because they had become so poor
they could no longer afford to farm their own land. They moved to small Italian village called Ferriere. Maria’s
family settled here, finally finding work on the farm of a man called Count
Mazzolini. Times were tough and the Goretti’s were forced to share housing with
the Serenelli family. Signor
Serenelli and his son Alessandro were difficult people to get along with but
the Goretti did what they had to provide for their family. Three years after
moving to Ferriere, Maria and her family lost their father to malaria. It was a difficult time for her
family.
Little
Maria grew into a quiet, strong, charming and modest young girl. She would attend Mass as often as
possible with her mother and could not wait for the day she would receive her
first Holy Communion. Though she
worked hard at home, doing most of the household chores and watching over her
younger siblings so her family could work the fields, she did so with the
serious but cheerful attitude. The
only “thorn in her side” at that time, was the constant unwanted advances from
Alessandro, the son of the family the Goretti's lived with. He would often taunt Maria and make
lewd and crude remarks and requests.
Maria did her best to ignore Alessandro but he continued to confront
her.
Maria
received her greatest joy on June 16, 1901 when she received her First Holy
Communion. This is what she had
been hoping and praying for since her Confirmation, six years before. Though she was unable to attend school
and play like other children her age, Maria was content knowing she had Jesus
living in her and could receive Him whenever she desired now that she had made
her Holy Communion. Nothing
pleased her more than this.
Life
continued to be difficult but Maria and her family remained close and devout,
knowing the Lord would provide for them. Maria continued to grow in piety,
beauty and strength and Alessandro continued to take notice of the pretty young
girl.
It
was a hot July 5th afternoon in the year 1902, while Maria was
sitting on the stairs doing some sewing that Alessandro appeared before
her. He forcibly grabbed her arm
and led her back into the house, intent on having his way with her. Those lewd and crude thoughts he had
been harboring for Maria were quickly becoming a reality. Maria refused his advances and fought
Alessandro off. He was older and
stronger than Maria, and quickly cornered her again. As he tried to advance upon her, she fought him off, saying,
“No, no, God does not want this. It is a sin.” Alessandro paid no heed and Maria continued to fight,
telling him she would rather die than commit this sinful act. Alessandro grew so angry that he
stabbed Maria over eleven times, mortally wounding her.
Shortly
after the attack, Maria’s mother returned home and found her daughter
bleeding. She rushed Maria to the
hospital and the doctors did what they could but her injuries were too severe. As she lay suffering from her wounds,
she prayed to the Father and the Blessed Mother, and with her last breaths,
forgave Alessandro for what he had done to her and begged her mother to do the
same.
Maria
Goretti died on July 6, 1902, at the young age of 11, a martyr for her faith. Yet her work here was not done. Alessandro was arrested, tried and
convicted of murder and remained unrepentant in jail. It was while in jail, that Maria appeared to him in a dream,
offering him flowers as a sign of her forgiveness. Alessandro was a changed man when he awoke. After spending 27 years in jail, he was
released and went directly to Maria’s mother, Assunta, to beg her
forgiveness. Her words to Alessandro
were that if Maria had forgiven him, how could she not forgive him also. From that day forward, Alessandro
referred to Maria as “my little saint”.
In
April of 1947, the Catholic Church beatified Maria Goretti. Three years later, on June 24, 1950,
Maria Goretti was canonized and declared a saint the Catholic Church. Her mother, Assunta, and her brothers
and sisters, as well as Alessandro were all present at her canonization.
Maria
Goretti’s feast day is July 6 and she is the patron saint of youth, young
women, purity and victims of rape. She is an example of faith and conviction
for her beliefs. Who among us can say that we would have does the same as Maria
if faced with the same situation?
When
we hear “the voice” telling us “no, no, it is a sin, God does not want this” do
we heed that voice or do we brush it away and continue down the dark pathway of
sin? Is it easier to just give in than to fight for our beliefs to the point of
death? Can we forgive those who have hurt us or sinned against us? If an eleven-year-old girl can do it so
can we. We need to look deep
inside ourselves and find the strength to turn against sin and follow the path
of our beliefs. We must find the
ability to look upon the cross and see Jesus and tell ourselves if He can look
upon the people who scourged and crucified Him and ask His Father to “Forgive
them, they know not what they do”, then who are we to be any less
forgiving.
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